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Showing posts with label inspirational goodness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspirational goodness. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

pleasure vs. happiness

for FHE on monday night, ben put together a great little lesson. 
we talked about the difference between pleasure and true happiness.
in Jesus the Christ James E. Talmage states the following...


"The present is an age of pleasure-seeking, and men are losing their sanity in the mad rush for sensations that do but excite and disappoint. In this day of counterfeits, adulterations, and base imitations, the devil is busier than he has ever been in the course of human history, in the manufacture of pleasures, both old and new; and these he offers for sale in most attractive fashion, falsely labeled, Happiness. In this soul-destroying craft he is without a peer; he has had centuries of experience and practice, and by his skill he controls the market. He has learned the tricks of the trade, and knows well how to catch the eye and arouse the desire of his customers. He puts up the stuff in bright-colored packages, tied with tinsel string and tassel; and crowds flock to his bargain counters, hustling and crushing one another in their frenzy to buy.
"Follow one of the purchasers as he goes off gloatingly with his gaudy packet, and watch him as he opens it. What finds he inside the gilded wrapping? He has expected fragrant happiness, but uncovers only an inferior brand of pleasure, the stench of which is nauseating.
"Happiness includes all that is really desirable and of true worth in pleasure, and much besides. Happiness is genuine gold, pleasure but guilded brass, which corrodes in the hand, and is soon converted into poisonous verdigris. Happiness is as the genuine diamond, which, rough or polished, shines with its own inimitable luster; pleasure is as the paste imitation that glows only when artificially embellished. Happiness is as the ruby, red as the heart's blood, hard and enduring; pleasure, as stained glass, soft, brittle, and of but transitory beauty.
"Happiness is true food, wholesome, nutritious and sweet; it builds up the body and generates energy for action, physical, mental and spiritual; pleasure is but a deceiving stimulant which, like spiritous drink, makes one think he is strong when in reality enfeebled; makes him fancy he is well when in fact stricken with deadly malady.
"Happiness leaves no bad after-taste, it is followed by no depressing reaction; it calls for no repentance, brings no regret, entails no remorse; pleasure too often makes necessary repentance, contrition, and suffering; and, if indulged to the extreme, it brings degradation and destruction.
"True happiness is lived over and over again in memory, always with a renewal of the original good; a moment of unholy pleasure may leave a barbed sting, which, like a thorn in the flesh, is an ever-present source of anguish.
"Happiness is not akin with levity, nor is it one with light- minded mirth. It springs from the deeper fountains of the soul, and is not infrequently accompanied by tears. Have you never been so happy that you have had to weep? I have."


 i had never read that before. but it is written so beautifully. i now have a goal to always seek after things which will produce eternal happiness rather than temporary pleasure. 

we then proceeded to kiwi loco to get the dinner of champions.
and it was DELICIOUS.
if you live in rexburg, go there. 



 happy hump day!

Sunday, April 17, 2011

something to think about.

"Don't water down your worth. Anyone who asks you to apologize for having high standards clearly doesn't meet them."


i realize that this photo has no correlation with the quote. but i just love it.

Monday, April 11, 2011

jackie o.

i have been packing all day so i deserve a little break, right?
i just came across 9-10 books/biographies about the kennedy's.
i have always had somewhat of a fascination with the kennedy family and love reading about the kennedy administration and political agenda.
ben and i just finished watching the 8-part mini series about the kennedy's yesterday. 
we can see why it has been called a bit controversial but we HIGHLY recommend it.
just make sure you take all the info in the series with a grain of salt.
anyways, 
i'm flipping through one of these books and finding tons of old post-its marking quotes and pictures that i like. 
most would consider jacqueline kennedy one of the most influential first ladies to ever occupy the white house. 
she influenced fashion, american living, and politics.





i wouldn't mind owning these dresses.


or this one.






my love for jackie and her timeless style will never die.

Saturday, April 9, 2011

i love this

12 things to put you in an INSTANT good mood



-exercise: we've all heard it. this number ONE tip experts give for boosting your mood..fast. plus it gives you more energy. ben and i have been trying to go to the gym together daily and we get at least another hour out of our day.
-eat breakfast: it will prevent grumpiness and help you perform.
-speak up: being assertive enhances self confidence and shuts down feelings of helplessness.
-focus on making memories: researchers found that 57% of people reported they were happier when they spent money on an experience. 
-go outside: just five minutes of walking in the great outdoors has beneficial effects. i need it to be summer so we can go on BIKE RIDES.
-hug it out: it is critical that we have some sort of physical affection in your life.
-face your challenges: who would have thought? actually doing the things on your to-do list is beneficial. the more you put things off, the more anxious you are. no bueno.
-say something nice: compliment people! and do it a lot.
-be grateful: have an attitude of gratitude. and make sure that you write things down that you are grateful for.
-savor your snapshots: take the time to look at those photos you have on your refrigerator and taped to your computer.
-less white stuff: sugar and flour can lead to an energy and mood crash.
-remember to laugh: tell jokes, laugh at jokes, and laugh at yourself.